Thank you guy's i will send this video to my father. Because i want him to say Ayse is a part of me. Who ever upsets her upsets me. Incase my future husband want's second marriage

May Allah heal you and grant you guidance. Only Allah knows whether you will be granted a husband or not, so do not worry about who might be your co-wife. Instead, pray to Allah to bless you with a righteous and pious husband—one who fears Allah regarding your rights, whether you are a co-wife or the only wife. Such a man would never abandon his responsibilities or pursue sinful relationships.

The words of Muhammad ﷺ were not meant for just any father and daughter; they were for the Messenger of Allah ﷺ himself and for the leader of the women of Jannah. Applying them incorrectly to one’s own situation may lead to misunderstanding or even arrogance, so one should be cautious.

May Allah make you among the dwellers of Jannah and grant goodness and forgiveness to your father as well.

I am not against a woman not wanting to be a co-wife or her desire not to share her husband with another sister. Even Fatimah (may Allah be pleased with her) was upset when she heard that Ali (may Allah be pleased with him) intended to marry the daughter of Abu Jahl. The Prophet of Allah ﷺ supported her feelings, saying that if his daughter was hurt, it would hurt him as well. Upsetting a Prophet—even by doing something that is permissible in the religion—may decrease a person's status in the sight of Allah.

A similar example is the Companion who repented and accepted Islam after having killed the Prophet's ﷺ uncle while he was still a disbeliever. Although the Prophet ﷺ forgave him, and Allah, the Lord of the worlds, forgave him as well, the Prophet ﷺ asked him not to appear before him frequently because seeing his face reminded him of his beloved uncle and caused him grief.

What I am against are those who refuse to tolerate their husband having another wife, as permitted by Allah, yet might tolerate him having a girlfriend under Western norms. That accepts something which goes against the law of Allah while rejecting something that Allah has permitted, making their standard the opposite of what Allah has legislated.

You should state your conditions beforehand so that they do not become a cause of divorce later. Allah is the Best of Planners and the Author of our lives. He wrote our destinies even before we were born, so we should always be grateful to Him, even if He gives us something we are not pleased with.

As Allah says:

"Some faces, that Day, will be radiant, looking at their Lord." (Qur'an 75:22–23)

His promise that the believers will see His Noble Face and enter His Jannah is sufficient for us. May Allah make us among those who are granted that immense blessing. Ameen.

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